Certainly you can make a commitment to someone after you have been with her for a time and decide this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. You may come off as sounding needy and that will either scare women away, or attract those who wish to take advantage of you.
If there's a still active profile using one of your email addresses, you should be able to enter it here, then reset your password.That's provided that email address is still active too, of course.We want one and only one active profile per lesbotronic-appropriate human. On behalf of all current members whose time you might waste if you had multiple profiles active, any attempt on the part of one individual human to generate multiple active profiles, using more than one email address or otherwise, will be viewed as an act of time-wasting spammy obnoxiousness and is grounds for deletion of all your profiles. Apologies for the gruff nature of that last paragraph, but it was best we got that little bit of business out of the way before kicking this thing into gear, alrighty? I am certain I do not already have a profile active. Here are my Top 10 places to meet other lesbians and bisexual women.
I don’t know where you live, but if you’re in a community where people are out and open, you can meet lesbians just about anywhere, doing anything you enjoy.
Plus, just getting out, you will feel better about yourself and stop focusing so much on how hard it is to meet women.
Pick activities that are likely to appeal to women in your age range.
Since you are shy, don’t have your friends “set you up,” rather, have them invite you over for dinner, to a movie or some other social activity you might enjoy with one or two single friends. Also, you talk about your concern of all the roles of butch, femme and what they mean.
I say don’t worry about any of that and just be yourself.
If you do meet someone online, eventually you will probably want to meet her in person, but hopefully by that time you will have emailed and talked to her on the phone enough that a face-to-face encounter won’t scare you to death!