But anyone who runs a blog dealing with marriage or sex, and I’d guess anyone in that area of marriage counselling as well, has to know that these are not unicorns, and there aren’t more of them every day, they’re just becoming more vocal.
3% of wives have a higher sex drive than their husband and 10% have matching drives giving 13% of wives with high sex drives.
I would suggest this number is deflated because of the social stigma attached to men who don’t want sex as much as their wives. You can’t just ask people if they are refused, because some people will say they are refused while they’re having sex more than seven times a week (which by the way only 3% of respondents are, but 50% of those who are have been married 25 years, so kudos, you’ve earned it! So, here is the logic I used to determine if someone is being refused: Then, you might be a refused spouse.
This is nowhere near the belief we’ve been fed that sex dies after marriage. If there are 50, chances are about 5 of those women are crying themselves to sleep at night because their husband doesn’t want to have sex with them.
In fact, from what I can tell, marriages in the community I am reaching are having sex on average 2-3 times a week, which seems consistent with other, more scientific, surveys. I mean, if the stereotype is to be believed, then there should be none, or maybe 1. I bet you’re going to have trouble paying attention to the sermon this week trying to figure out who they are. Now, we have lots of posts out there about men being refused, about how to deal with the rejection, about how rejecting your husband for sex is an act of disrespect, and on and on it goes. The shame of admitting that your husband doesn’t want sex with you can be more overwhelming than the hope that anyone can help.
Because the wives have this shame that their husband doesn’t want to be with them, and the husbands generally don’t want to acknowledge the issue, let alone deal with, because they have their own stigma.
In societies view, what kind of man would pass down sex with a wife who wants it? Tell them that you read a stat saying that 11% of women are being refused. Share that some women want sex more than their husband.
He went on to describe his relationship with the actress as "something that we value, something that we treasure and we appreciate." Pascual and Magdayao were first romantically linked with each other back in 2012 after reportedly getting cozy during the concert tour of "ASAP" in Singapore that year.
I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but we’ve been getting more and more comments from women say that they want sex more than their husbands, completely shattering the stereotype that men always want more sex.
When both of you know that you’ll be spending weekends together, or at least Friday and Saturday nights, you’re probably exclusive.
It’s one thing for him to tell the guys about his hot date or GF, but when he tells his closest female friends all about you, he’s getting the vote of approval and wants to share his joy. When he’s ready to let go of her and move onto a meaningful relationship with you, he’ll let his ex know he has a GF, so respectable boundaries can be set. When you exchange keys with enthusiasm he’s letting you know that you now have the key to his heart.
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